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You Won't Want To Read ThisThe Male Orgasm And It's Effect On The World
Men are capable of long, sustained multiple orgasms.Men are capable of long, sustained, multiple orgasms that are identical to those of women, but are largely unaware of this sexual potential. Men's sexual frustration is then channeled into the acquisition of power and the ability to dominate others. Sharing and caring societies such as in some Pacific Island cultures, do not restrict or block sexual expression, and domination of women and competitiveness are noticeably absent. Nordic cultures also share resources by taxation on upper incomes - a rarity among Western cultures. Women are not restricted from positions of power in political or business life but are encouraged to bring their unique perspectives into setting and administering policy in all areas of public life. (In Scandinavia nearly 50% of Parliamentarians and CEOs of major companies are women.) Competitive and acquisitive cultures such as ours manifest strange anomalies, including censoring sex but not violence and legal brothels where violence is bought and sold, but sexual pleasure is illegal. These anomalies only make sense when viewed against the need to create an environment where great wealth can be created for the enjoyment of the few. Sexual frustration and violence stimulates production and consumption.Sexual frustration and violence stimulates production and consumption. In such highly individualistic cultures men are highly motivated to restrict women economically, socially and sexually because of their sexual frustration. Rayner has studies the contrasting sexual practices of many other cultures and writes about the various effects on our political, social and economic life of Western cultures. He describes how the Nordic countries have created a very different approach to this whole factor of sexual differences between the sexes. Change peoples' experience of pain into pleasure.Rayner Garner has been researching, inventing, nurturing and discovering many ways in which people can heal themselves. His main interest has been to change peoples experience of pain into pleasure. His research into the balance of power between women and men in the Nordic culture points the way to resolving the often bitter and tragic dissonance/ distancing and misunderstanding between the sexes, in this and many other cultures. He became interested in why Nordic males were willing to relinquish 50% of their power to women. That a child centered culture was gradually accepted and extensive social services created. Rayner contends that while many factors were responsible, an emphasis in education on the equal albeit different talents and abilities between the sexes, and the similarities of their sexual needs and desires was a prime factor. Sex education in the schools was obligatory. Parents were not permitted to withdraw their children from sex ed. on any grounds what so ever. Corporal punishment at home or school was made illegal. The emphasis on sex education was to assure women that they have the same sexual desires as men and not to feel guilty or ashamed about these desires. As the classes are coed, men learn that the double standard is not only unfair, and unjust but also untrue. When men realize the benefit of having women who are encouraged as much as men are to be in touch with their sexual needs and to assert their right to the same sexual freedom that men enjoy, a major source of frustration and misunderstanding between the sexes disappear. In some cultures, men are not obsessed with sex.In visits to Sweden and Denmark, it is obvious that men are not as obsessed with sex as many of their European and American counterparts are. Men are content, to let a woman approach them to establish a sexual relationship. Neither are Nordic men particularly interested in the pornography available which was openly displayed. "Oh, that’s for tourists," a social worker explained when questioned about the effect of such displays particularly on children. She continued, "We have very little problem with pedophiles, particularly serial ones. Children, because of extensive sex education which also discusses inappropriate sexual behavior in depth, are used to discussing sexual matters in an uninhibited manner with friends and parents. Therefore pederasts are usually discovered before they are able to repeat their in appropriate behavior. Children also have more opportunity to explore their sexual needs with their peers, and are less likely to be drawn to children sexually when they are adult. We are also accustomed to public display of nudity. As children, we are not taught that our bodies are shameful and need to be hidden. Both children and parents will frequently walk around in the home unclothed or naked in the family saunas and in the parks and beaches." "As we are so accustomed seeing to naked bodies we are not particularly interested in purchasing pictures of nudes, or peeking at naked people. In any case we have a very different approach to censorship than in your country. We are not certain that watching images changes behavior or influences people to commit violent or other dangerous acts. In case it does, we prefer to err on the side of caution and we censor violence but not acts of consensual sex. We believe that is a contributing factor to our low rates of violence, sexual and otherwise." Oppression of women goes hand in hand with sexual frustrationThis brings us back to Rayner’s contention that male sexual frustration can be met appropriately with both a sexual and social approach that is sex positive that will allow both sexes to have their mutual needs met. One of the major discoveries that Rayner made has to do with sexual flows. This little understood phenomenon is at the core of women and men’s ability to be fully sexually satisfied. One of the key factors behind women’s ability to experience multiple orgasm is the fact that in the Western society men are usually the dominant partner and flow sexual energy into the woman. In some Pacific Island cultures where women are encouraged to be sexually assertive women also flow sexual energy into their partners, and help them sustain It is his contention that if women are encouraged to be sexually positive and in touch with their sexual desires and needs as men are, men are more sexually satisfied and able to become willing to share their control. Men from other cultures, principally in the Pacific Islands, where both sexes are reared in a sexually positive manner, free from shame and guilt, have traditionally preferred matriarchal societies and are more willing to share with women economic power and material goods. It is indicative of a sexually negative culture that oppression of women goes hand in hand with sexual frustration of men and women. Healing Chronic PainIn addition, Rayner writes about the De-Identification Process, a revolutionary method for relieving some forms of chronic pain and addictive patterns of behavior. To read more about this method see the page about De-Identification Processing What Critics say about The Male Orgasm and Its Effect on the WorldAn erotic, exciting work of fiction based on the life experiences of a perpetually curious sex researcher and therapist. Sexually extraordinary. A joy to read. The author's goal is to help people attain the ultimate in sexual pleasure by adapting Polynesian methods of helping women and men achieve extended sexual ecstasy of a depth and quality few people usually achieve.
WarningIf you are easily influenced by others, or consider yourself
a "victim" rather than a self-directed individual, and suspect
that you could carry out violent acts from reading books and watching
movies, please do not purchase this document. I have no wish to be charged
with having "influenced" people to carry out salacious acts
of love making thereby becoming a threat to the economic security of the
State. You might also frighten the horses. I have published an edition
with all descriptions of explicit love making deleted. Table Of Contents
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"You
Won't Want to Read This" is the title of a book dealing with
the complexities of our sexual attitudes and behaviors, and how they
impinge on our lives. "The Male Orgasm and Its Effect on
the World"
is the subtitle. Rayner contends that men are chronically sexually
frustrated and that this is at the core of many of our social and economic
problems. His research concludes that men are just as frustrated as
women were decades ago. This is why, in his opinion, men restrict women’s
economic advancement, and balk at taking the next logical step into
creating a new paradigm of life - a benign and very fruitful existence
for all.